Friday, August 17, 2012

“Orphan” and Poor are NOT Synonymous

This is a FaceBook comment I made regarding the Pat Robertson video, I just posted:

  As an adult former foster child I find is implication that those of us who have survived adversity are profoundly and permanently damaged and not worth the effort offensive, and clearly untrue.

HOWEVER, when we talk about so-called “Orphan Care” worldwide what we are talking about is “Orphans,” the majority of whom have one living parent and poverty is the overwhelming factor in their availability for adoption. When people quote:

“James 1:27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.”

I am always struck by the fact that it says AND, The fatherless AND widow, it says nothing about take her child, change their name seal its birth-certificate and make them “your own.”

Abused and intentionally neglected children need and deserve loving permanent homes. Children living in poverty who have parents who want and love them but can’t feed them, deserve to be helped at HOME with their family of origin where they belong.

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amen!!
I am so freaking sick of the word orphan. And Christians that use it and misuse it further a cause that I don't really believe it. Your friend, the Christian. Who has adopted. Internet high five.
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And that why I love you Scoops, you really are trying so hard to figure out the tangled mess that adoption, poverty and your role in it all. I admire your willingness to put your process and thoughts out there.
thank you for this post. it really upsets me too. so many people i know like me that grew up with severely abusive, intentionally neglectful, cruel parents who tortured and abused us do not ever get taken into the system if our parents had money but the ones who do have someone around that really cares for them but just needs monetary support do? that makes me sick..and very sad. def. those parents who need the monetary support but have the love in their hearts should receive the assistance and support they need in terms of money or childcare or anything .

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