Are there any mysteries you just can’t solve?
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Monday, December 20, 2010
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Are there any mysteries you just can’t solve?
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Yesterday Amélie (5) insisted she wanted chocolate milk. She did not drink it, so we put it in the fridge and gave it to her at dinner tonight. "Excuse Me! Why can't you solve the mystery? I decided I do not like chocolate milk!" she says.
Are there any mysteries you just can’t solve?
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